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T asked me a very thought-provoking qn on sun...when i answered him today..he told me tt my ans is very chim for his simple qn. LOL. but i told him tt there are no simple qns...only simple answers...some to think of it...simplified answers wld have been a better word.
he asked me if gals go for looks or personality. obviously e GP-tendencies tt i have kicked in. i started from e general trend.
when gals get older..personality become more impt coz a relationship is only part of life unless if leads to marriage which is for life. as ppl get older, the prospect of marriage is played up more and obviously everyone (guys/gals) want someone they can live with for the rest of their lives so obviously personality becomes more impt. young ppl think tt they have many chances at love hence personality isn't so impt coz if they realize tt they cannot stand the other half, they can just break. afterall, much more in life await.
after e general diagnosis...i told tiong my personal views. as usual...i like to give answers tt are unconventional..and indeed i believe in wat i said. i am just unconventional...
i think that both ain't impt. coz however gd looking a person is and however nice a person may be...there will always be someone better. wat's most impt to me is e feel. i go with e feel of things. if a person can be judged based on looks or personality..it's like a score chart, marking scheme kinda thing. which demeans love, making it sterile and scientific. love isn't something objective in my world. love is something tt cannot be understood. love shldn't allow u to see a person in a dissected way e.g. personality 6 out of 10..flaws include e following. when i love someone, i noe e flaws as strengths. e weaknesses as e areas which i must complement.
everyone experiences a diff feeling when interacting with diff ppl....i noe tt i love someone when e feelings are heightened i guess..suddenly i laugh more, get angry easier, xin teng u more, cry coz of u...
very thought provoking. LOL. tiong listened to me and decided tt he needed time to digest all that i've said.
love entails trust too.
i trust that u will gently let me noe tt u dun feel e same.
i feel that u aren't pushing me away but allowing me to venture closer with my small steps.
i was quite for SP to include a slow dance...
i realized tt love is like a blindfolded slow dance, u dunno if e other person feels e same when u start dancing...u can only hope tt as u move ur tiny insecure steps, e other party will be in sync. you rejoice when u take ur small steps and e other follows...u feel as if he'll be willing to continue the dance.... and as u continue dancing, u exult when e other draws u nearer, when e other leads u in some steps. coz it makes u realize tt yes, perhaps that person enjoys e dance.
i feel as if you are willing to follow my steps...sometimes u seem to draw me nearer...yet like e blindfolded...i can nvr be sure.