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2 random tots for tonite
1. a way to noe that u are a gd leader and tt u made a difference to e lives of e ppl who were under u...when u are in uni yr 1...and some J2 from ur JC cca....comes to u and ask for advice and tells u how things are going in e cca as if it's e only natural thing to do. =). i watch e times go by....taught e 87 batch so much stuff...guided e 88 batch. and now e 88 batch still ask me stuff...really comforting. when they feel that they can tell u stuff and u won't judge/scold them but wld help them think of a solution. tt's not just being a leader. tt's being a fren. =) nice feeling.
2. when one has no expectations, one is most happy. sometimes i'm peeved when ppl EXPECT me to do things. i dun have to do them. i dun have to prove anything. i rem me and Y. we were happy together, no strings attached. we cld do anything we deemed fit, study, hang ard talking, going for lunch/dinner. true...things felt weird. but we knew we cld expect nothing from each other. so we were happy, snatching e lil moments i guess. as i was telling rubz. which she feels applies to her and xr...which i think applies to everyone in any kinda r/s.
when u expect nothing...u will be happy
when u have expectations...sometimes u just end up with disappointments
let me add that e other party ends up stressed
i wldn't expect there to be a breeze when i step out of my door. but coz there is one, i would smile and enjoy it. yet if i am to expect a breeze when i step out of my door and stifling hot air greets me, inevitably i will be upset.
i rather greet life with a smile.
which explains partly y i dun bother to ans qns abt H and S anymore. becoz hot air shall be e given. and e breeze shall make me smile. rather than getting upset...i rather expect nothing.